Having completed the training for the Christian Counsellors Association of Australia Ian Parkin is now a supervisor for his colleagues. If you are a counsellor looking for a supervisor please give Ian a call and discuss your needs with him.
NEWS FLASH Ian Parkin is now a qualified Supervisor
The engagement with other work on a Friday meant that I may have to forego the weekly radio programme on Alive 90.5 FM. At the moment working through the book by Gary Chapman called “The Four Seasons Of Marriage”. Now it seems we can organize to pre-record our sessions on a Thursday morning before the Friday midday sessions are due.
Because of Good Friday this week the first pre-recorded session will be the following week at 12 noon Friday 21st April 2017. We are working through seven strategies to improve relationships for couples. We are about half way through these seven (7) strategies. The hope is that if someone is in a season such as the winter of their marriage they may be able to shift to a brighter season.
Regrettably I am not going to be available for my weekly radio programme after this Friday due to other commitments.
This session will be on the seven strategies suggested by Gary Chapman in his book titled “The 4 Seasons of Marriage”.
So in case you missed it they are 1. Deal with past failures, 2. Choose a winning attitude, 3. Learn to speak the love language of your spouse, 4. Develop the awesome power of empathic listening, 5. Discover the Joy of helping your partner succeed, 6. Maximise your differences, and, 7. Implement the power of positive influence.
So that is it in a nut shell.
Sorry to be leaving but other duties beckon.
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Out of seven strategies the first is dealing with past failures.
The three steps are to first clearly identify past failures then to process confession and repentance and afterwards forgiveness.
Sometimes the hardest part is looking at ourselves to discern how have we failed in the past in this relationship. Maybe we can identify the failures of the other person yet find it hard to look into ourselves and ask “where could I have failed in tis relationship?”.
Each week I (Ian) feature on the radio at 12:00 noon Fridays.
The latest conversations have centred around adolescents.
As the audience are mostly in the parent age group the focus is from their perspective.
The lasy two weeks have explored the changes that might be taking place in both the physical, mental and spiritual eleents of a young person.
This week I will be discussing “rational parenting”.
This is more than just tender loving care. The headings to consider include :-
Being true to yourselves.
Staying in touch with empathy.
Listening and hearing.
Focusing on the problem at hand.
Willing to risk.
Living rationally on a daily basis.